Welcome to Stable Living Coaching.

Where parents overcome overwhelm and become more confident leaders.

And teens get the tools to reduce anxiety, increase confidence, and practice healthy decision making.

Country Strong. Thriving Together.
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Parents, is any of this familiar to you?

A teen who seems lost, overwhelmed, or out of control
Relationships with your child filled with tension, hurt, or distance
Constant battles with screens, video games, or social media
Nothing you try—punishments, lectures, or negotiations—seem to work
Exhaustion from micromanaging or over-parenting because you feel you have no other choice
Struggles with divorce, blended family dynamics, or major transitions
Watching your child battle anxiety, depression, or self-doubt
Struggling to manage your emotions, yelling, or snapping
Feeling disrespected or shut out by your teen
Sibling fights that escalate to chaos
Angry outbursts, defiance, or refusal to cooperate
A shy or withdrawn child who struggles to connect with peers
Rebellion against rules, school refusal, or complete shutdowns
Feeling trapped in negative parenting cycles and unsure how to change
If you can relate to any of this, you are not alone. We’ve been there. We understand what it’s like to feel helpless, heartbroken, or unsure how to reach your child. Parenting can be exhausting. It’s normal to feel defeated or just want to run away sometimes.

Whatever you’re going through, we’re here for you. We help work through overwhelming emotions and provide practical solutions to life’s toughest moments.

You can break free from guilt, stress, fear, and frustration. Instead of feeling stuck, you can have peace in your home, take control of your life, and experience living and parenting in a whole new way.

STABLE LIVING ONLINE COACHING PROGRAMS:

How To Be Confident With Your Horse

Stable Living For Teens

Life Skills and Tools for Country Kids
Increasing Self-Confidence
Believing in Dreams
Accessing Personal Power
Communicating for Connecting
Excelling as an Adult
Adolescence brings lots of new emotions, including stress and uncertainty. The way teens respond to these challenges will define their future.

Personalized coaching gives teens the tools to understand their emotions and build a solid foundation of confidence, this allows them to begin making better choices and it prepares them to step into adulthood with courage and focus.
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How To Get Into a Career With Horses

Stable Living For Parents

Reducing Anxiety
Solving Stress and Overwhelm
Letting Go of Guilt and Shame
Leading with Love
Gaining Peace of Mind
Thriving as a Proud Parent
The best way to love and support your kids is by becoming your best version of you, because who we are as parents and how we engage with the world, are much stronger predictors of how our children will do than what we know about parenting.

Through coaching, parents learn new strategies to let go of guilt and overwhelm for good, handle challenges with confidence, and re-connect in ways kids and parents crave so much.
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What You Can Expect with Stable Living for Teens

Parenting tests the deepest part of our being. Between the endless responsibilities of work, bills, maintaining a household, nurturing relationships, and trying to keep your own sanity, there are days when it seems like you’ve reached your breaking point.

Like you want to quit, but you can’t. It’s a heavy burden, and no one prepares us for how deeply parenting will test us. But here’s the truth: being the parent your child needs doesn’t require perfection.

What they need is within your reach.

Stable Living Coaching will give you the tools to regain your footing, ease the stress, and show up as the calm, confident leader your family needs. Our system is inspired by horses for country families, and it works. Imagine a home with less tension, more connection, and a renewed sense of peace in your heart and your relationships.

Join Stable Living today. Feel the difference, for yourself, your child, and your entire family.

Stable Living Weekly

Get 2 FREE Coaching Sessions
and then $399/month
∙Weekly one on one coaching
∙Full Access to The Horsemanship Journey Show
∙24/7 Ask a Coach
∙Full access to our library of clinics and courses
∙Free admission to upcoming events
∙Stay as long or as little as you want
START Your 14 Day Free Trial  

Stable Living Bi-Weekly

Get 1 FREE Coaching Session
and then $199/month
∙Bi-weekly one on one coaching
∙Full Access to The Horsemanship Journey Show
∙24/7 Ask a Coach
∙Full access to our library of clinics and courses
∙Free admission to upcoming events
∙Stay as long or as little as you want
Start Your 14 Day Free Trial  

Have More Questions?
Schedule a Call!

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Here's what's important to know:

Know if you feel alone know you are not alone.

Know what you are going through is normal.

Know you can feel better.

Know you can show up as a confident leader.

Know that this work is important.

How you think and feel affects everything.

The Stable Living Program Includes

  • Weekly one on one coaching with your personal Certified Life Coach
  • 24/7 Text Support
  • Our vast library of content
  • Membership In Our Community

How It Works:

1. Schedule your first coaching session with Shane

  • Your coaching sessions are for you and your specific challenges.

2. Begin enjoying more peace in your heart and in your home.

In addition to one-on-one coaching, Stable Living members also get:

Access to The Horsemanship Journey Show.

  • 75 of the top horsemen and women in the world and experts in human behavior in an empowering inspirational show.
  • 25 episodes with over 34 hours of content.

Access to Ask a Coach messaging.

  • 24/7  Personal support outside of your one on one sessions.

Access our entire library of clinics and courses.  

  • Access all of our previous events.  

Free admission to upcoming events.

  • Attend Stable Living Coaching's live events and clinics at no cost.

Progress through the System at your own pace.  

  • Stay as long or as little as you want. Your personal coach will be there to support you through it all.

Enjoy the Peace that comes from Stable Living.

The life skills we teach in Stable Living combined with the relatability we have with country families, combined with the magic of horses, combined with our experience, will have a permanent positive impact on your child and on your family depending on your level of participation.

And that’s why it works.

Secure their future today.

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Here Are Some of the Ways Stable Living Coaching Helps.

Heal Painful Family Dynamics – Learn strategies to improve communication and rebuild trust.
Break Free from Screen Struggles – Manage screen time without constant battles or outbursts.
Restore Respect – Guide your child toward treating you and others with kindness and consideration.
Defuse Anger and Aggression – Help your child handle their emotions without rage or threats.
Reconnect with a Withdrawn Child – Navigate avoidance and bring them back into family life.
Improve Communication – End the cycle of snapping, blaming, and poor listening.
Stop Sibling Fighting – Create a calmer, more cooperative home environment.
Build Confidence and Self-Esteem – Help your child feel capable, strong, and valued.
Encourage Responsibility – Tackle struggles with chores, hygiene, and diet.
Create Healthy Screen Habits – Reduce dependency on screens by addressing the underlying problems.
Get Your Child Out of Their Room – Replace isolation with a balanced, engaged life.
Support Academic Success – Teach time management and stress relief to ease school pressures.
Handle Big Emotions – Calm perfectionism, worry, and impulsive behaviors.
Address Substance Use – Tackle vaping, drugs, or alcohol use with honesty and guidance.
Stop Lying and Sneakiness – Build a foundation of trust and integrity.
Guide Toward Passion and Purpose – Help your child uncover their direction and goals.
Prepare for Life Transitions – From school to adulthood, equip your child for success.
Prepare for Life Transitions – From college prep to independence, equip them to step forward with confidence.
No matter what challenges you are facing, Stable Living will equip you with real tools that work. Parenting can feel like navigating a storm, intense emotions, conflicting priorities, and the weight of guiding your child through all of life’s problems. We’re about empowering parents to create lasting change. We’ll help you rediscover the confident, capable parent you know you can be.

Start today. Peace and progress are within reach.

Stable Living
Weekly

Get 2 Free Coaching Sessions
and then $399/month
∙Weekly one on one coaching
∙Full Access to The Horsemanship Journey Show
∙24/7 Ask a Coach
∙Full access to our library of clinics and courses
∙Free admission to upcoming events
∙Stay as long or as little as you want
Start Your 14 Day Free Trial  

Stable Living
Bi-Weekly

Get 1 Free Coaching Session
and then $199/month
∙Bi-weekly one on one coaching
∙Full Access to The Horsemanship Journey Show
∙24/7 Ask a Coach
∙Full access to our library of clinics and courses
∙Free admission to upcoming events
∙Stay as long or as little as you want
Start Your 14 Day Free Trial  

Have More Questions?
Schedule a Call!

We Are Here To Help!
Schedule a call

Frequently Asked Questions

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Do I need to have a horse or know about horses to participate?

No. Stable Living does not involve horse handling or riding or direct interaction with horses.

The Stable Living Program is based on 4 Core Principles that can be seen in horses interacting with people and with other horses.

The 4 Core Principles are not unique to horses. They are universal truths that horses demonstrate. Involving horses in learning has shown to peak interest and resonate with teens and parents.

How can  I know for sure Stable Living will help my child?

You can’t. The Stable Living program has extremely high success rates. However, results are dependent on your child’s willingness to participate. Most all teens that are willing to participate at some level build a trusting relationship with our coaches and end up making substantial improvements in their lives. Also remember, you can stay for as long or as little as you choose.

Can parents join Stable Living if their children aren’t participating?

Yes. As parents improve how they manage their minds they become better at parenting, find more peace, have less stress,  and less overwhelm. This alone will have a positive impact on your children.

Does Stable Living Coaching accept insurance?

No. We do not accept insurance. This allows us to tailor treatment plans without being restricted by insurance company policies. It also allows for more personalized care and lets us determine the length and frequency of sessions based on the client’s needs rather than insurance limitations.

Is canceling easy?

Yes, you may cancel at any time, hassle free. Simply send us an email

Shane Jacob is a Certified Life Coach trained to help families resolve conflict, manage emotions, and achieve their dreams. Get ready to rediscover connection and have more peace in your heart and in your home.


Sign up for your free trial today and get solutions for your very own situation, whatever that is.
Come as you are with what you've got. Shane will meet you where you are.

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