Parenting is one of the hardest things a human can do. Yet parents are often expected to handle it with endless patience, confidence, and love. But the truth is this: many parents secretly struggle with thoughts they’re afraid to say out loud. You are far from alone. These thoughts feel scary, shameful, and heavy, but they don’t mean you’re a bad parent. They mean you’re human. This article breaks down why these thoughts happen, why they don’t define you, and how to pull yourself out of the shame spiral so you can reconnect with your kids and yourself.

Most of us grew up hearing, “It’s just a joke” or “Take a joke.” Maybe we even thought it was harmless, playful, or a way to bond. I believed it too. Until I started paying attention. Here’s the truth: teasing is criticism disguised as humor. It’s anger without ownership. And it always comes at a cost.

We all have a past. Some of us have things we are proud of, some we are ashamed of, and most of us have moments that shaped us in ways we did not choose. Here’s the truth: your past is not something that happens to you today. The only power it has over your present and future is the power you give it through your thoughts. I have lived a past most people would call broken. I have been in prison, struggled with alcohol, faced failed marriages, and carried shame that felt impossible to shake. I used to think all of that meant I was branded for life. That it would always limit me. But I was wrong. I changed my past. You can too.

Teen addiction is rising, and it’s not just about drugs or alcohol. Shane Jacob breaks down why teens turn to addictive behaviors, what drives these choices, and how parents and mentors can help them build self-belief to prevent or overcome addiction. This article provides insights and strategies to protect and guide the teens in your life.

Most people think vanity is bad. They think it means arrogance or thinking you are better than everyone else. I disagree. Admiring your own achievements and appearance is not bad. Pride is feeling good about what you have done. Being proud is valuing yourself.Society confuses self-acceptance with superiority. You only become arrogant if you put others down. Admiring yourself does not do that. It gives you the foundation to grow, contribute, and love more fully.

Your style tells the story of how you see yourself. The question is, are you telling that story on purpose or by accident?